Friends

     I only made good friends when i was on college, workplaces,roomates,friends of friends and i feel some more coming. 

     Just like love, friends also comes in unexpected time and even to unexpected person. When i was growing up(girl) i really do not have real good friends, you know those friends that you feel you can easily get crazy with? Of course, so hard to made good friends when you are a girl because, every girl at your age only want to be friends with smart kid, pretty, famous not like me that so poor, fat and ugly.(thats what my grade school classmates made me feel). 

    Girls wanted to be the center of attention, when you turn your back you are the subject of their gossips. And its pretty annoying. Well, when you are a girl you are obviously annoying and it made total sense because you are 'just' a girl. Tattle tale here and there, even my older brother hated me because of how annoying my attitude was back then around the ages of 3-11 yrs old, I hope(LOL). 

   But when you are growing up and becoming an adult, and you are still being the annoying girl/teenage its not cute anymore, because those excuses are only acceptable when you are at the ages of grade schooler and high schooler. Even, when you are at high school and you are still annoying nobody likes you. Well, i cannot real say that I have a good friends during high school days, nobody likes me because I am the 'fat' girl that always sleeps at classes around 2pm. And, the fact that i have size 30-waistline. And also because i suck on classes and i am too slow on mathematics. Nobody likes the transferee whose so fat and ugly and slow. They all like the pretty, famous and smart girl at school. 

   So,lets move on to my story, when i was working that was before my brother sent me to college, i made good friends too,even until now i still remember them,we made our different ways when our contract ended. 

Missing 2ladies of this group(College-friends/these are my lady-like group of friends). 

Third one group couldn't find a picture(they were JM,MJ and Ate Marlyn)

     When, i was in college i have my self-confidence built,some likes my 'noisiness' some other are annoyed with it and good news was that I don't care. But i also found good friends, that accepted me for being the 'noisy jacky' at school. And they are still around me all these years and they have captured my heart and trust. The funny thing was that, i have 3groups of friends during college, different classes and they do not even know each other. But i always think about them. Though we do not often communicate but i know they value me just like how much i valued them. 

  I will write about my other group of friends on my next post.

 these are my college friends(my goofest friends). 

*Lesson: You cannot find a real good friends if you yourself is not real/true to them. 

True Friends are like jewels,they are out there but are hard to find. So,if you have found yours keep them and value them just like how much you value your family.  

Me, i am not just lucky to have my friends but also blessed because i know wherever i go, they will always be in my heart. I might missed communicating most of them but if they leave me a message I definitely will be more than happy to reply.(if i am not busy). So friends, rock on. Hit me up with the message button now. I miss you all.